Here are things catchers should NOT say to an umpire — especially if they want a good working relationship behind the plate. These are based on real-world umpire etiquette and what officials consistently complain about:

❌ What Catchers Should Never Say to an Umpire

1. “Where was that?!”

This comes across as confrontational, even if the catcher “just wants to know.”

2. “You missed that one.”

Blunt accusation = instant loss of credibility.

3. “That was a strike all game until now.”

Umpires really dislike being told they’re inconsistent.

4. “Pitcher needs that.”

It implies the umpire should adjust the zone to help a team. Not happening.

5. “Come on, Blue… seriously?”

Sarcasm is a fast way to ruin rapport.

6. “You’re squeezing us.”

A direct challenge to the zone — huge no-no.

7. “He was definitely safe/out.”

Catchers shouldn't make rulings on plays they don’t have the angle on.

8. “You’re costing us the game.”

Instant warning. Sometimes instant ejection.

9. “That pitch was perfect… how do you NOT call that?”

Phrase may get you tossed depending on tone.

10. “Their pitcher is getting everything — why not us?”

Accusing bias is one of the biggest lines you can cross.

🚫 Behavior Catchers Should Avoid Saying With Body Language

Even if no words are spoken:

• Holding a pitch extra long to “show up” the ump

• Turning around to stare at the ump after a call

• Slamming the glove in frustration

• Loud sighing after a ball call

• Head shaking on every borderline pitch

Those say more than words.

✔️ What Catchers Can Say Instead (Umpires Appreciate These)

If they want information:

• “Was that in or out?” (polite tone)

• “Did it miss low?”

• “Where do you want that one?”

• “All good, thanks Blue.”

A catcher who communicates professionally earns respect — which leads to a smoother game for both sides.